Vietnam is a safe and friendly country, but its unique culture can come as a shock to foreign travelers.
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This call for modesty extends to the wearing of jewelry or carrying of large sums of money. It is considered impolite to flaunt your wealth, and on a practical level it may make you a target for pick-pocketing.
It also extends to behavior. While public displays of affection are accepted in the Western world, they are frowned upon in Vietnam. A couple may hold hands, but they should only hug and kiss behind closed doors.
If you strike up a friendship with one of the locals there are some rules to remember when visiting their home. Shoes should be left at the front door before entering. Most Vietnamese homes have a family altar, a place where they can honor their ancestors and consult them on important family matters. Visitors should never sleep or sit with their feet pointing towards this family altar.
It is also considered impolite to snap a person's photo before asking them. Many locals will be happy to star in your shot, but some will not. It's important to respect the wishes of any unwilling models. You should not push the issue or offer them money in an attempt to change their mind. You should also never take a photograph of a military installation, officer, or anything else to do with Vietnam's military. This may be seen as a security breach, and dealt with accordingly. While you may want to preserve your entire vacation, you should leave your video camera at home when visiting small villages. The locals consider these modern devices to be intrusive.
There is a lot to remember when visiting Vietnam, but don't worry if you get it wrong. The Vietnamese people will appreciate your efforts and forgive any indiscretions.
The pool villas have their own kitchens, but if you feel like letting someone else do the work make sure you visit one of the resort's two gourmet restaurants. Local Vietnamese cuisine and international dishes are served side by side in both establishments.
You need never leave Nam Hai Villas, as there are plenty of activities to help you wile away the hours. You can work up a sweat in the gym, or soak up the sunshine on the tennis, badminton, and basketball courts. Then wind down in the Spa Center or library.
Nam Hai translates to "Heaven on Earth," and it seems a moniker befitting such a special resort.


If you want to see the real Vietnam, forget the tour buses and get on your bike! While the motorized excursions zoom through the countryside on the way to major tourist centers, an